kinda to-do list while long holiday

Hello netizen setia pembaca blog aku, mungkin hadirmu memang antara ada dan tiada ya.. tapi its okay aku hepi kok bercerewet ria di blog. Agar liburan kali ini berasa faedahnya, I'd like to recommend you some good things to do while you were in a long long long holiday.

Aku cerita dikit boleh? Aku seharusnya tidak merasakan long holiday di liburan ini, karena ada kendala yang kita semua tau pasti dibalik semua masalah selalu ada hikmahnya, aku jadi merasakan long holiday yaitu sebulan full bakal di Bogor dan setelahnya harus tempur mengejar ketertinggalan ini. #sip

Here we go; some good things I'd like to recommend you!

1. Housewifing
Housewifing or doing the housewife things, like cooking, ironing, washing, house cleaning, playing with kids, hand-crafting, etc. Menurutku, belakangan ini peminat kegiatan housewifing dari kaum hawa kurang keliatan, bahkan mostly agak terlihat merendahkan kegiatan begini. Mungkin beberapa yang mengacuhkan housewifing mikirnya, "tenang aja lah ada jasa baby sitter" atau "jaman sekarang ngapain ribet-ribet, yang penting gue jadi kaya dan nanti nyewa jasa ART" dan semacamnya. Padahal, menurutku esensi dari kegiatan ini tuh berguna banget buat masa-masa yang akan datang.
Kalo nikah nanti kan ya hidup ga cuma soal kita dan pasangan nanti, tapi masih ada keluarga besar kita dan juga keluarga besar pasangan, dan belum lagi ada anak-anak yang kita lahirkan dan besarkan, wah berguna banget ilmu housewifing tuh terutama parenting. Nah semisal kamu nggak punya adek, bisa loh latihan parenting dengan cara sering main sama anak-anak kecil atau mungkin mulai ngelatih diri sendiri kalo ngeliat anak kecil diajak main gitu ngobrol dan dibikin nyaman deh dia sama kamu. Loh loh, kok jadi bahas parenting. Ya intinya bisa lah buat latihan kehidupan kamu yang akan datang, karena as we know the future is damn absurd.

2. Reading
Baca ini maksudnya bisa banyak, tapi aku kelompokin jadi dua, baca artikel offline/online dan baca buku. Artikel yang bisa kamu baca disesuaiin aja sama minatmu apa, ga perlu bacaan yang serius-serius, yang penting intisari dari artikel itu bisa kamu tangkep. Sama halnya sama baca buku, ga perlu buku berat-berat, yang penting kamu ambil yang bisa dipelajarin dari apa yang kamu baca itu udah bagus kok malah bagus banget. Sekarang aku lagi on going baca Self Improvement 101, bukunya John C. Maxwell. Mungkin nanti kalo udah selesai baca dan nyerep intinya, aku coba share disini kali ya? Netizen setuju?

3. Instant Course by Application
Aplikasi seperti Grammar Test, Duolingo, SoloLearn, dan semacamnya sabi banget loh buat mengisi waktu luang kamu. Mungkin kamu sekarang lagi ada di masa-masa jenuhnya cuma ngeliatin story orang, scroll feeds gitu-gitu aja, bosen sama games yang ada di hp? Nah, coba deh download aplikasi instant coursing gitu, ya memang ngga selamanya kamu bakal punya waktu luang dan menggunakan aplikasi-aplikasi tsb secara rutin, tapi setidaknya liburan panjangmu bisa lah keisi sama hal-hal seperti itu daripada menghabiskan kuota just for looking up instagram things..
Aku mencoba melanjutkan kegiatan lamaku, yaitu nge-Duolingo, bahasa yang dulu sempet aku pelajarin yaitu German, dan lumayan sih seru aja sekarang belajar bahasa lagi. Ich vermisse dich, du vermisst mich auch? Ea.

4. Volunteering
Ini juga recently what I'm looking for. Berhubung aku merasa aku punya waktu yang cukup banyak di rumah, Bogor, aku mencari-cari kegiatan yang sedang mencari volunteers di sekitaran Jabodetabek untuk ngisi waktu luangku. Ngga melulu volunteer sih, bisa aja mengisi kelas sosial atau kelas-kelas inspirator yang bisa bikin kamu lebih berpikiran terbuka terkait sosialmu itu juga berguna dan terhitung mudah banget untuk dicari loh event-eventnya. Coba ke link indorelawan.org, sign up dan kamu bisa cari kegiatan sosial yang sesuai dengan minat atau potensi kamu untuk kamu ikutin, atau bisa juga based on your domicile.

Oke baik, sekian dulu yah!
Terima kasih sudah membaca, mungkin teman-teman ada yang mau sharing? Aku terbuka banget loh! See ya, fella!

Is it good to be always positive?

"Memang seharusnya tidak berlebihan, hiduplah sesederhana mungkin dan jangan kamu berlebihan menyikapi sesuatu."

Somebody or something may come to your life, either as a blessing or a lesson. And there will be always something to be learned from it. I believe that everything in this world that comes to you is just a temporary things. Nothing is permanent. Your wealth, friends, achievements, also feelings, they're not permanent. Wealth can turn into bankrupt, friends can turn into enemies (or they maybe passed away), achievement is just a name, also feelings can change, and its all can change at any moment.

I spent these 3 days for having a reflection for what i've did in my entire life. I got my first "photo studio" session at 4, I couldnt get those instantly things I want but I have to get myself in the struggle to get it, I was being uncontrolled when i get mad to something, I got my first tightest (yet the most comfortable) hug at 19, I was being a happy me to others but some of them who is really understand about me is tryin to always cheering me up, I've been using Blogger since i was in junior high school, I met my first love at 20, I was feeling so deeply down when I got no one just to hear me or cheer me up, I could cry in entire 2 days and ended up with swollen eyes and headache attack, I have plans and targets which i used to reach it by looking for others way but lately I realize we cant use their way too to reach ours but we can reach the same target as they do IN MY OWN WAY, I left my reading hobby since I was in senior highschool, I was no longer being a "secret k-poper" since i was in senior high school (and this year is my turning point for this haha)…

and yeah, I've been facing it all.

Oh, the lastest thing I've learned is, the greatest motivator to your life is you are itself. If you looking for others that you think he/she is the most motivating person, actually, they are just an inspirator to you. Yes, we as a human can inspire each other, we can influence each other, but who can motivate yourself is you are itself.

In the end, be blessed for every lessons you’ve got in life. Happy Monday! :)

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I wanna share my happiness in a day with my friends but I've posted it on Instagram so I think I dont have to post it again in here?! may I just share some cute posts from my friends? hehe I dont wanna spam this post with photos but if you were willing to see my friend's birthday wishes post, kindly click this link

Alhamdulillah..

A little escape

Hi everyone! How's life?
It's time to story-telling!

Last Sunday, I went to a beach in Pacitan with my friends without any plans before. we left Solo at (about) 10a.m., then arrived in Pacitan at 3p.m..

at first, we stopped at Soge beach, but actually the beach was tide so we couldn't get to the seashore. but though we took some photos at Soge! after 15-20 mins was looking around, we chose to move to another beach. 

So we moved to somewhere I dont know haha letting my friend drove the car. and finally we were arrive at Telengria beach! I've been there before (about couple years ago), and for me, it was much better years ago haha. over all, I did feel comfy when I was there. hearing the waves, feeling the breeze through my veil. looking at the sky that gets darker, and playing the sands with my fingers. perfect!

I wanna spend a day with him in a beach. feeling the sensation of being in a beach, holding hands together, like what I did with him when we were in Boyolali. (re: catching sunrise ala-ala). hahaha that was sweet for me hwaaaaah.

we, as human, will never forget those things that was very memorable for us, wont we?

 

by the way, have you watch the new mvclip from TWICE - Dance the Night Away?
Jihyo got so cute (as always) in white dress!! (BUT STILL yoona lisa dan jennie nggak kalah cantik!!)

i think that's all for my stories. good night everyone!